Good Morning my lil Delights ..... We all have our own definition of "Love" ....Consider the chance that your definition doesnt match up w/ the person you share your love w/ (gasp - like that happens lol) .... If its not YOUR definition ... Does it mean they dont love you?
While most of us face this w/ all relationships we get offended when our expectations are mot met. While our expression of love may change w/ the situation isnt it love non the less??.
Its our "needs" that hinder our progress. I need someone who can .... this or that.
A wise man told me .... It takes time for me to love you. I want to know YOU ... not superficially but deep inside. This is a beautiful statement .... IF its in truth & built on a solid foundation.
What I have found is we should eliminate our definitions COMPLETELY!!! OUR definitions (expectations) are what cause disappointment and rejection in ourselves.
Since I have become a Christian I have realized the base of love needs to forever be rooted in God. I don't need to have "punishments or rejections" .... I assure you the things God can / will do to someone who abuses his children are much worse than anything I could ever do. There is a point where God may tell me to exit a relationship or move on... but he expects me to maintain MY/HIS steady path.
Concerning myself with others only holds me back. Sometimes our travels in life will be with someone walking next to us & sometimes it wont be ... But God will ALWAYS be there.
While most of us face this w/ all relationships we get offended when our expectations are mot met. While our expression of love may change w/ the situation isnt it love non the less??.
Its our "needs" that hinder our progress. I need someone who can .... this or that.
A wise man told me .... It takes time for me to love you. I want to know YOU ... not superficially but deep inside. This is a beautiful statement .... IF its in truth & built on a solid foundation.
What I have found is we should eliminate our definitions COMPLETELY!!! OUR definitions (expectations) are what cause disappointment and rejection in ourselves.
Since I have become a Christian I have realized the base of love needs to forever be rooted in God. I don't need to have "punishments or rejections" .... I assure you the things God can / will do to someone who abuses his children are much worse than anything I could ever do. There is a point where God may tell me to exit a relationship or move on... but he expects me to maintain MY/HIS steady path.
Concerning myself with others only holds me back. Sometimes our travels in life will be with someone walking next to us & sometimes it wont be ... But God will ALWAYS be there.
