F-A-T or P-H-A-T

When I weighed over 350lbs people talked about me behind my back and called me fat.

When I started to lose weight …. People talked about me and had TONS of comments regarding my breasts.

Since I’ve became happy with my body … people STILL talk about me behind my back and call me stuck up.

It is VERY sad that no matter your age, body type or attitude people will ALWAYS find something to talk about.  Whats even worse is its NOT the men who speak so ugly of me … its is my own gender!  I cant quite call them “women” because as a woman they would encourage, push and hold me up if I fall or want someone to celebrate with.

My heart is a bit heavy …. WHEN will they get it?!?!!  We destroy our own … I know this life is not about men vs women … but in so so many situations you have women believing men over other women.  You have women within families destroying bonds because of hate and ugliness towards another.

We, although were made for much much more, have this horrible super power to destroy ANY woman who attempts to be “better” in the end. 

I am disgusted by our behavior and our manners towards eachother!

To ALL THE WOMEN who are bettering yourself FOR YOURSELF! … Please take down my name, my FB page, my email … IM me …. FIND ME!  I want to be there to encourage you …. To be your friend when the others have deserted you and left you alone or when they dont! …. I feel your pain my sista and I love you! for having the strength to stand up and continue ANYWAY!

To ALL The WOMEN reading this … I promise to be the friend who is ALWAYS there with a GENUINE “atta boy” …. Who will jump and “hoot” in YOUR CORNER as you exceed your OWN expectations.  I will run the race with you …. I will fight the fight with you …. I will cry your tears if you are unable.  I promise to defend you or stand next to you …. Or push you from behind.

I LOVE YOU! … Even when you cant find it in yourself to love you.  Stand Tall …. And let me stand with you!  …. And to ALL THOSE “OTHERS” ….. 

Heaven help your heart …. And your soul …. WE WILL CONTINUE TO LOVE LIVE AND BE BETTER whether you are with us or not.  However, … when you are ready … our arms are open!